AITAH for wearing red makeup when my fiance said not to?
Well our situationship is an arranged setting. Him (26M) and I(21F) have been taking for about 2 months now. The only reason we aren’t married yet is cuz he can’t get a few days off at work until february.
He is kinda on the romantic side I’d say. He’s acting just fine until a few days ago, I was at my friend’s wedding and when I got home I got a text from him saying “whatever outfit u wear don’t wear red makeup. Cuz u look good without it”
I previously told him that red is my favorite color and seeing him say that kinda felt controlling. To that I said “it’s my favorite color so I’ll be wearing it. We can talk about it, you can further explain yourself and point out the reason why if you’re comfortable enough but don’t expect me not to wear it”. I sent him some pictures from the wedding I attended, asked about his day and all. He wasn’t online plus my phone was dead so I said bye and went to bed.
He stopped talking to me after that. He didn’t respond to my texts or called. He left me on seen. I didn’t realize he was mad cuz I thought he was just busy. I sent him a text anyway thinking he’ll see it when he has time. Later he replis seemed kinda cold. He was responding in short answers, responding late even tho saw he my texts right away and wasn’t asking me anything about my friend’s wedding. That’s when I realized he was mad. I told him we could talk if he wanted. He left me on seen again.
His sulking made me mad so I too stopped texting him. The next day he uploaded a status saying being burdened with too much emotions. He uploaded that at 4 in the morning meaning he didn’t sleep.
Later that day at evening he sent me a song link. The song was about not wanting to fight. Knowing him ik he doesn’t listen to these kinda songs and more likely he searched it up. I find that lazy and childish. If he had enough time to find a song then he could’ve said sent me a text or a vm saying what he wanted.
He gave me silent treatment for 3 days then decides to send a song link( not even apologizing)and expecting me to act like nothing happened. I still haven’t texted him
Why would a man have any problem with a certain colored makeup? It’s frickin illogical. It isn’t even about makeup at this point. If he’s going to act ignorant everytime we have a disagreement then how is he going to act in difficult situations?
I told my mom about it. She wants *me* to apologize and just “obey” him. I said I’m calling off the wedding if that’s how things are going to be. He is supposed to be a partner not someone I take orders from.
So AITAH?
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