He starts rambling on about nothing important but just acting very weird. I can’t really explain it. Like he would make random comments on our beauty, and how rude it was of my coworker to be looking at her phone while he was talking (she wasn’t on the clock yet). I don’t know how he circled back but he was talking about the resume and then asked for my phone number to contact me about the progress of it. I was very much in a time crunch for leaving (it was already past when I was supposed to leave). I said I could give him the business number and he was getting visibly annoyed. When I’m in uncomfortable situations, especially with men, I’m trying to think off all possible outcomes.
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I was desperately trying to explain the situation and told him I had blocked the number, and I certainly wasn’t trying to flirt with a 50 year old man. He was very mad at me. I understood the situation didn’t look great but I showed him the photo of the resume to try and help my story. He believed me but was not happy that I had done that and told me I should’ve just told the guy off. I tried to explain more that is not that simple and he is not a woman so I don’t expect him to understand but I’d hope he’d have more trust in me at this point. This was months back and he still brings it up yelling when he’s mad at me for something (and it will be unrelated, like lack of dressing up to sit with him and watch tv). I don’t know what to do. Was I really that much in the wrong?
https://youtu.be/RgL5EI5UAck?si=D2Qh3FYZWrb3h5OQ
