Am I the AH for telling a co-worker I don’t like them?
Long story short, I don’t like one of my co-workers. She was a new hire about 2 months ago and is already trying to run the entire store. Telling people what to do, snapping her fingers at people to demand attention, and she has an attitude that just rubs me the wrong way.
She rolled her eyes at the assistant manager all because he’s younger than her. I’m not the only one who doesn’t like her, almost everyone in the store really doesn’t care for her, I’m just the only one who will say anything.
She rolled her eyes at the assistant manager all because he’s younger than her. I’m not the only one who doesn’t like her, almost everyone in the store really doesn’t care for her, I’m just the only one who will say anything.
I’ve been cordial with her, and so far she knows better than to snap her fingers at me, I’ve made that clear. But anytime I’m in a good mood, she thinks we’re “BFFS” and wants to tell me about her bf and her mom and her new piercing or she wants help cleaning her piercing… I’ve told her multiple times, “Hey, can we just keep things on a work basis” and she says “okay” and then we go about our day. Mind you, I’ve had to repeat myself almost every day.
Well this last time I just had enough about hearing about her personal life. So I just said “look, I don’t like you and nowhere in my job description does it say that I have to like you. I tolerate you and I’m more than happy to assist you where you need it. But I don’t care to hear about your life.” And she went and told my boss that I bullied her and she’s considering going to HR…. Am I wrong? Idc if I’m the AH but holy crap am I tired of hearing about her personal life. I genuinely do not care.
Also, edit:
She’s also talked shit about me telling the assistant manager I’m lazy and don’t wanna do my job. (We have two completely different job descriptions on opposite sides of the store and she comes in 5 hours after me… she has no idea what I’m doing and nor does she know what my job entails. The assistant manager told her to mind her business and focus on her job and she told on him for being rude to her 
mind you she throws attitude at him and rolls her eyes everytime he asks her to complete a task 
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