My boyfriend (25M) and I (22F) have been together for a year and half now. Personally I have always had a high sex drive and have always been interested in videos and things of that nature. I have always been open about my attraction towards women and attraction is as far as my experience goes with women.

My boyfriend has always been interested in me being attracted to women but hasn’t explicitly asked for anything further cause I’ve made it clear it’s not something I’m interested in.

Towards the start of our relationship he was slightly insecure on this attraction and others as well and others attraction towards me especially. This would sometimes put a strain on our the sexual aspect of our relationship but we have since overcome that as if almost a year ago.

Recently , as of around 3 months ago it seems that insecurity I guess has come back and around the same time he started making comments that allude to me being overly sexual and women in general being overly sexual. When asking him to explain further his reasoning is I should know cause I’m a woman and he’s been talking about it for a year. None of my behaviours have changed and neither has my appearance or style. This is again putting a strain on our sexual relationship especially on my end this time cause I’m confused on what the hell he’s going on about and I’m heavily considering if this is even worth the fight but we have been together for a bit

I don’t feel my sexual advances towards him were over bearing and I don’t think being intimate 1-4 times a week is absurd. Am I the asshole for wanting to be intimate too much?