AITAH for feeling sad and angry because my wife kept her past cancer treatments for me?

I (28 M) and my wife (27 M) have been together for 2 years.

I met her in an unconventional way, that week I was supposed to start looking for a possible arranged marriage (quite common here). She and I are from completely different worlds (her words not mine), I never had freedom but I am relatively richer than her due to my family’s business while my wife belonged to a lower middle class income group.

On my “bachelor party” I met her a week before I was supposed to be “in the market” As per my father

She was our guide sort of person ( a friend of a friend who wasn’t present) but I had the most amazing night with her we went sightseeing to all the best places in the city and I fell in love with her then and there ( I might be a bit biased but she is my wife so) I explained the while situation and she took it well ( as I said, quite common here).

My friends noticed we both liked e/o and after pulling a few strings and a hell lot of issues between our families including having to cut contacts from a family member …we got married which was the best day of my life (though it might come second to.y daughters birth) on that note we have a daughter who is only 10 months old as of now.

Last week at a gathering we met one of her old friends who surprisingly is also my associate. He let it slip that she had cancer and was lucky enough that she recovered fully and is living such a great life (her dream was in foreign policy and she is in that department now a huge upgrade for someone who had given up on the said dream) .

I haven’t said anything but I’m quite angry she didn’t tell me anything about that and I had to hear it from someone else and quite sadly a part of my mind wonders if I even know her.

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