AITAH for refusing to change my email?
My ex and I got divorced 5 years ago. He remarried a Mexican immigrant about 3 years ago. I have no issues with that, we get along great, we have no quarrels.
As soon as the divorce was final 5 years ago, I changed my name back to my maiden name. I also changed my name on everything including tax documents, all my LLC stuff, my ID, SS card, the deed to my home, our kids’ school stuff, credit cards, my utilities, all my social media, EVERYTHING has my new name tied to it and has been for 5 years. However, the email I have tied to all of those things is my old email with his last name in it.
My ex texted me a month ago asking me to stop using the email with my old name in it because it’s supposedly causing problems with his wife’s immigration stuff. He states he has shown them our divorce decree but they are still sending her letters, threatening deportation. Mind you, they don’t know the true reason why they keep getting these letters. It doesn’t say anywhere in these letters that it’s because of my email. He approached the whole situation aggressively and tried to accuse me of holding onto his last name even though I showed him proof that I have zero ties to that last name, much less any desire to keep it. And correct me if I’m wrong, but just because my email has his last name in it, it does not mean I’m married or even related to him. My Email could be Dorthypitt0330@gmail.com, that doesn’t mean I’m married to Brad Pitt, and immigration should know this..??? 
I just really don’t want to change it because the process of changing everything in my life connected to that email to a new email sounds like I would rather shit glass. AITAH?
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