• Am I The A’hole? (AITA)
  • (AITA) Okay so today my fiancĂ© and I are taking our engagement photos.

    Okay so today my fiancé and I are taking our engagement photos.

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    And my mother and sister are very upset. My mother is upset bc my dad doesn’t do these things with her anymore. My sister has always been jealous. Today we paid my aunt 250 for photos. We are going to the lake he purposed to me at. As I’m getting ready my mom and sister are being rude and hardly speaking to me. So I was like whatever went about my day. Well 30 min later here are sister and mom getting all dolled up…I was like where yall going? They go to take pictures with yall. I went what? They went yeah we want pictures by the lake to. Am I the asshole for being pissed off? Mind you family photos are tm they can do. And I mean I’m absolutely fuming, they took a special day and threw enough of a fit, made it about them. My thoughts are what are they gonna do on our wedding day?

    I planned to meet up with a coworker for an event where we gave nursing home residents little gift bags. She suggested we meet 1 hr prior the time(12). I suppose to meet others, divide gift bags etc. I confirm the time before we part on Friday.
    So I arrive about 14 min (11:48) early and message her. 40 min later she responds to me ( 12:27) and says were leaving in 10 minutes. I respond saying, oh I thought we were supposed to meet at 12. She says I thought we were to conviene early. She set the time and when I reminded she agreed.
    So at 12:42 I left. I feel like they don’t respect my time and like they treated me like I was an idiot about the agreed time.
    In my mind, I can understand running late or plan changes but trying to tell me something else was said really pissed me off so I left. So, am I the jerk?

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