AITAH?
Yesterday was my birthday. My Faince spoiled me but he was also picking at me and ordering me what to do.
Last night he told me to wash out a pizza sauce can. He didnt ask, so I told he no and that he had to ask and not tell. Well he got mad and threw the can past me into the sink. Which made pizza sauce go all over the place. He blamed me and I got upset and pushed him so I could get past him because he was blocking my way. He is now saying I am abusive. But he caused a flashback of what my ex husband used to do to me.
So am I the AH?
Edit: just to let people know as i said above he was bossing me around all day and making fun of me. I had enough of doing everything for him so I finally told him no and he threw (not tossed) past my head. He then stood in my way and said awful things to me. I have severe PTSD and I went back to what my ex used to do to me and I freaked out and pushed him out of my way. No I should not have laid hands on him but it was my only way to get away. For the ones asking if he has done this before, no he has never threw things before, but he can be bossy at times, but most of the time he is good besides making fun of me. I also did try talking to him like an adult but he wouldn’t listen to me, it just got him more mad.
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