Am I the AH for telling my boyfriend to get his own place to live.
Basically me F39 and him M38 have been together for 4 1/2 years relationship was going great. The problems have started with small things like him sleeping on the sofa the odd night then turning into every night. |
I’ve told him it makes me feel alone and unwanted and not good enough to share a bed with. He’s like I’m up and down all night. Which to be fair sometimes he is but sometimes he’s solidly asleep there all night. Told him that if I wanted to be alone and sleep alone I’d be single. He didn’t seem bothered.
I’ve told him it makes me feel alone and unwanted and not good enough to share a bed with. He’s like I’m up and down all night. Which to be fair sometimes he is but sometimes he’s solidly asleep there all night. Told him that if I wanted to be alone and sleep alone I’d be single. He didn’t seem bothered.
He has never taken me on a date or takes me out that’s not a major issue.
Then there are the issues of him not sticking but I the agreement of him doing the shopping. This was agreed as I pay all the bills except his phone bill and gym membership. Just to make it fair. I pulled him up on this and found out he owed a lot of money out. Told him it’s not acceptable and it’s like he’s living here for free and not contributing.
He asks for money when I have it and doesn’t care that need it for something. As his needs always seem to come first. Never pays me back and I’ve told him about it.
He’s not affectionate at all. Doesn’t care when I’m upset. Hardly intimate anymore only when he’s in the mood. I’ve tried to initiate these things and he knocks me back saying he isn’t in the mood. He has toothache he has stomach ache but when he’s in the mood it’s different.
I’ve told him how I feel which is lonely unwanted and neglected and he just says you know I love you and say no I don’t as you don’t show me that. I told him to get his own place as he doesn’t contribute being the main thing. Ive told him it’s more like a friend sleeping on your sofa. He’s like no it’s not like that but I am at breaking point
I know for a fact he’s not cheating or anything like thatWho is the AH on this situation or if anyone has any advice it will be appreciated
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