AITA? I dont drive I used to take the bus but now I have a toddler.
My mom. Convinced my husband the bus isnt safe for our toddler so they set up a schedule where one would take me and my toddler every day i work but the days my husband takes me he doesn’t want to get up. He always says he will the night before. Today I yelled at him becuase I got up got ready and got our toddler ready for daycare and my husband was still in bed. I had to tell him to get dressed, then I came in the room 10 mins later and he is still putting his socks on and I lost it. It is -10degress and he needed to start the car already or it wont be warm for our toddler who can’t wear a winter coat in the carseat. So I yell at him and he goes to start the car. 10 mins later we leave and get in the car that is still cold our toddler was crying and shivering I buckle him in and put a blanket around him and say ready. My husband who has just been sitting in the front seat then gets out to scrap the windows scrapes a tiny section on the driver’s windshield and thats it. We can’t see out the back or side windows. And I lose it! The bus is safer at this point and more reliable! He claime not being able to see out of the back and side widows is “completely safe”
Eta: we are also paying for a day of daycare so he can go back home and “relax” all day after he drops us off. When I could just ride the bus and our toddler could stay home with him but he doesn’t want that either he wants the toddler to go to daycare.
