AITA?
So my husband and I have only been married about a month now.
Our relationship has been anything but easy, he is a hard angry man and I’m more of a laid back let it go type. Anywho, am I the asshole for thinking about divorce because he forgot my birthday? For some context, every holiday is a fight with him except this Christmas and his birthdays. And he forgets anniversary’s too. This birthday was especially painful because I had been asking him for the past 2 weeks if we had plans, granted I didn’t say for my birthday specifically 1 because I knew he would forget and 2 because anytime I bring up something he always finds some way to make it my fault ( I imagine it would have gone like this, “hey babe did you forget my birthday is tomorrow?” “No, I didn’t but that’s the type of guy you think I am right? Not even good enough to remeber his own wife’s birthday? Shows how much you believe in me” or something along those lines) mind you I am 4 months pregnant with our first child together. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and hoped that maybe he had something planned (I already told him I wanted to stay home all day anyways so no money needed to spent) and we were up until 12:00 am and nothing. Not a big deal though we both went to bed (at this point my body was already preparing for the hurt so I was acting a little sad and off) the morning comes, nothing. We wake up together, and then he goes on his phone for about an hour maybe 2 max and still nothing. I knew now for sure he forgot. And he’s is in my family group chat, in the chat they stated saying happy birthday and as soon as he saw it he said “happy birthday babe!” Then asked me what I wanted to do and what I wanted for my birthday. I said that I wanted to stay and home and didn’t want anything and he asked me “why I was being like that?” I told him because he forgot and it made me sad. He then said “I wasn’t even looking at the date I didn’t get that far yet” followed by “well why didn’t you remind me? Not that you really have to but..” and I didn’t respond just cried. Then looked over at me while I was turned away and said “who are you telling that I’m a piece of shit for forgetting??” because for some reason all he cares about is what other people think. He did apologize and order me flowers and made breakfast in bed which was nice but AITA for being less than happy with how today went? WIBTA to think of divorce or separation?
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