AITAH I asked my sister to leave Christmas dinner for dedicating a song to me and my husband
I(30F) have a great relationship with my husband, 46. Been together for 3 years, married for one and I am expecting our first son. He is a very high achiever, career oriented and has a very successful career in a top managerial position in corporation.
I am not a stay at home mother, but I just have a job, not a career. And I am happy this way. I have a college degree and work in that field but for me is enough. I don’t want climb. I cook and bake almost daily for him. But he doesn’t make me do it, I want it. There were days when I didn’t and he was just like OK, lets order something.
I wanted a more old school guy. He works in industrial engineering, has 200 subordinates, so he is very organised and discplined, has high standards for himself and others.
And my sister, 34F has been trying to get me to leave him because he ix toxic. I been with him for 3 years. I don’t feel anything toxic. He is a strict man at work because he has to, but not a bully. I havenever been happier.
And at the Christmas dinner she put the song Labour by Paloma Paris. I wouldn’t have cared that much but she was like: and this is the perfect song for my sister. Made for her. She likes to be a slave.
I turned it off and asked her to leave. I know she had too many drinks, but it was still disrespectful towards me and especially my husband, It wasn’t even the first time she is out of the line. We are going to have a son. He joked once that now he has a heir to the throne. And she asked him: if you had a daughter you would accuse my sister of failing to give you a son? You would leave her and despise your child?
