Was my sons father wrong for what he said to my mother?
My mom (my sons grandma) made a FALSE cps report on me after her attempt to put me a psych ward failed. (CPS never took him and nobody went to jail and nobody went to the psych ward either.) I have full custody my son. She accused me of having a mental break down because I tried to set boundaries with her and I got tired of her lying to me about where she had been taking my child. She is extremely overbearing and controlling and she can’t stand it when I set boundaries with her. And when i told her to leave my house while she visited she refused.
I told my sons father about the situation with my mom. He seemed to take my side so far.
But he recently told me that my mom DID try to reach out to him and she asked him if he could watch our son if CPS takes him. He told me that he told he her wouldn’t be able to take him cause he is at work all the time and that I (me) am the legal gaurdian of our son anyways (he was right, I have full custody) and that my moms response was “Oh really?” And that my mom said she can’t take him either because she also has a busy work schedule. (My sons father works more than 50 hours a week.)
He told me that he said that cause he was just trying to mind his own business and that he felt like the situation was not his business. I responded “Yes it IS your business because he is your child too.” And I kept explaining to him that my mom was lying. He said “I am not saying that it did or did not happen. I am just saying I was trying to mind my own business.” He also said that she lied and said that it was someone else to called CPS but it wasn’t. I knew it was her. The person who my mom accused of calling CPS even told me that she contacted her and told her that she admitted it was her. (My mom admitted to that person that she called them. That is how that person warned me about what my mom did. So unless she was pretending to be my mom when calling cps, i don’t think it was her.)
He also said that he told his own dad that I have been having issues with my mom but that he did not tell him the details about it. I asked if my mom contacted anyone else on his side of the family and he said no.
I still have my son. I don’t know if my mom thinks that CPS currently has my child or what. Or if she was just upset because she was hoping he would say “yes” to taking our son. She does not even like my sons father anyways. Part of me was surprised that she called him because I know she does not like him but part of me had a feeling she called him because I knew she has been on a ramant to slander me to everyone.
Edit: I already stopped talking to my mom. But that has not stopped her from continuing to slander me.
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