Aita for having my partner block his family member?
We’ve been together almost 2 years(friends for 4 years before that) and his sister thought it would be cool to comment on my post and run her mouth to me for absolutely no reason. I have never done anything to this woman but be nice.
Back in the summer I was 6 months pregnant and we went on a trip with her. She had us running around in 90 degree heat from outdoor hikes fishing etc with absolutely no food, no water and no shade, and our 2 children, our kids were absolutely miserable but literally the ONLY thing she seemed to care about what that her son got to go fishing with his uncle. They both love fishing and I get that but it was way too hot. Her older daughter was also miserable and our two kids were hot hungry and over it but she didn’t seem to care, as long as her son was happy and got to fish. All day. so by the time we got back to her house I was physically ill and exhausted and I sat down on the couch to rest for a moment. She then made rude comments about us ignoring our children and being the only one doing anything bc I didn’t help unload the car with her.. we had only been back to her house for about 20 minutes, I was going to get up n help I just needed a minute bc I wasn’t feeling well.. and I was extremely nauseous I needed a minute before playing with the kids (we both have 6 year olds from previous relationships) I just asked that they sat down and played their tablets for a moment so I could rest . When she started being rude I started to cry and told my partner I want to go home. So we left abruptly. I wrote her a long text apologizing for leaving and explaining how sick I felt from the heat and not eating anything all day. She never responded but I let it go.
Fast forward to a few days ago.
I made a status asking for donar milk or advise to up my milk supply bc I’m struggling with breast milk supply for baby from general stress.
She commented that she’s “tired of keeping her mouth shut and she’s witnessed my immaturity first hand bc of leaving her house and ruining the trip (for no reason and being dramatic) ….and I have no reason to be stressed bc her brother pays all my bills etc “ just publicly bashing me for absolutely no reason… mind you I most definitely do help pay bills I had thousands saved for maturnity leave and went back to work 8 weeks pp… so she has no idea what she’s talking about. She accused me of being controlling towards her brother bc of wanting to go home when she made me feel uncomfortable for being sick …
Everyone defended me in the comments and she quickly deleted her comments but still was trying to go back n forth with people making me look bad anyway she could.
I told my partner I needed him to defend me and he did and followed by blocking her and said she’s never been there for him anyways .
But I feel bad for having him argue and cut contact with family over me .. aita?
We were supposed to spend Christmas there and I just feel bad now but I want nothing to do with her . She gives off jealous energy towards me and I don’t understand why. He’s her brother not her bf… mind you her own husband didn’t come on this trip and she was very snappy with her older child the whole time and babying her son. We fished the entire trip literally and did absolutely nothing else. Nothing that the other 3 children wanted to do at all.. only fishing. Our kids don’t like fishing… and I never said anything mean to her ever even when she was mean towards me. Maybe I should have stayed and ignored the rude comments? I feel like I ruined everything by just wanting to go home that day.. 🙁 I feel bad for the kids not getting to see their uncle/ cousins now.
