AITA that I keep bringing up the lack of s3x in my relationship.
I have been married for less than six months and I love my husband dearly and he is such a good husband. He works really hard every single day except Sunday, back breaking construction. I talked to him and he finally admits he is just too tired for s3x and he also gets grossed out by germs if I don’t take a shower immediately before initiating. After our talk I’ve been taking showers every single night and trying to initiate on days I know he hasn’t worked as hard. One night he said he wasn’t tired so I showered and tried to initiate and he said he was too sore. He never seems interested physically. Like he doesn’t touch or look or anything. If we do engage it is with lights off and missionary only. If I am naked in front of him he never looks and tells me to put clothes on. I am a little overweight but not much and even though I’m hard on myself I know I am considered mostly attractive by the majority of ppl.
My husband truly is so good to me…brings me random flowers, bought me a car, took my four kids as his own and is a better father figure than their biological fathers ever were. He listens to me and goes out of his way to elevate me and my kids and make our lives better in every single way. He doesn’t watch porn and he doesn’t ever talk to other females nor has social media. He doesn’t have any medical conditions like ED or anything.
My gut tells me there is something deeper as to why we aren’t having s3x but he won’t admit to it. AITA because I keep bringing it up and making him feel bad when he literally does everything else for me and my kids??? It’s just not normal the way he doesn’t ever seem aroused by anything I do and is never interested. I have tried everything! I got out of the shower one night and he was sitting in a lounging chair. I sat on top of him, straddling him and opened up my towel, had his face in my tatas and started making out with him and he hugged me then folded me against his chest and pulled out his phone to watch funny clips together and was like honey what are you doing go put some clothes on. It didn’t arouse him at all! I don’t know what’s wrong but I feel in my gut something is off. We are newly married we should be having s3x all the time. He should at least occasionally be trying to catch a peak of me undressing etc. I know he loves me he shows me everyday by putting me first but I am starting to feel so self conscience and unattractive. I can think of maybe one time he has ever told me I was beautiful when we were dating. And no I don’t believe he is cheating because I am literally always with him even at work alot of times because I also work construction and he always races home to be with me and the kids and prefers to be phone with us than anything else. AITA for continuing to bring this up and asking questions? Should I just stop mentioning this problem and accept it for what it is?
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