Daughters vaping at school
I have 3 daughters. 15, 16, and 17 years old. Today at work, I got a call from their school. It was the principal.
She informed me that she walked in on all three of them vaping together. I thought I was dreaming. I expected much better from them.
I stayed home today. So I chose to look through their rooms. I used to always respect their privacy up until this moment. I found a phone I didn’t even realize was in my middle child’s room. It didn’t have a pass code so I went through it. Apparently she had a boyfriend from another state I didn’t know about. I don’t mind her dating but her hiding it from me broke my trust. I found a diary in my youngest’s room, I don’t know the pass code to it though. My oldest had a lot of vapes and even alcohol in there.
I messaged my youngest. She admitted she did it out of pressure from her sisters. She told us her sisters have (if it matters, our oldest works at McDonald’s and our middle works at Dunkin Donuts) also vaped at work, and our middle almost got fired for it.
My husband is freaking out about this. Where did we go wrong? We constantly give them unconditional love, we don’t force them to do anything, and we never exposed them to any kind of substances. I don’t understand why they started doing it.
They get home in an hour. Please help. How do I talk to them.
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