My partner (F31) and I (F35) have been dating for 1.5 years.
She lives about 3 hours from me and we travel on weekends to see each other. Her mother is her only family and doesn’t live within driving distance.
She’s here with me for the holidays. I live 10 minutes from my parents and my brother is down for Christmas as well, staying with my parents. I see him once or twice a year.
She gets along very well with my family but is a homebody. I spend every Christmas Eve at my parents house with them and my brother. My family is very close and we love spending the holidays together.
Last year, I stayed with my parents and she stayed at my apartment, only because Christmas Day is my birthday and she had a surprise planned for me at my apartment and had to prepare. This year, she is refusing to stay at my parents house with me and the only reason she’s given is that she wants to relax and play her game on her iPad. I told her that she could do that here, go to my bedroom at my parents house and lay in bed and play on her iPad. She said nope, she is going back to my place regardless. I explained to her how important it is to me to stay with my parents and brother as I have done every year of my life, and she said she’s sorry but she just wants to go back to my place, relax, game, and she’ll come back in the morning. I just wanted to spend Christmas Eve with all the people I love, but I don’t know what to do- stay with her or stay with my family.
Am I the asshole for being upset/honestly a little mad that she won’t suck it up and stay with me for ONE night at my parents house?
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