AITA for outing my aunt’s bedwetting after she kept asking about my sex life?
I’m 18F and am paralyzed chest down from an accident three years ago. I live with my older brother, and this past week he hosted a big family reunion with multiple other relatives staying in the house, very little privacy. The last time I saw her, my aunt would not stop asking invasive questions about my body and my sex life. I told her multiple times to stop, and she laughed and said that since my care affects the whole family (it does not), it’s “not really private.” which is bullshit. Then on Saturday night she stayed over and wet the bed. I know because she asked my brother about laundry and he found out about it, and told me. No one else knew. I of course wasn’t planning on telling anyone because obviously that’s embarrasing for her and I above anyone know what it’s like to not have full control of my body. But then yesterday the family had lunch with everyone, and she started with her bullshit again and joked that my boyfriend is more of a nurse than a lover.
I said that perhaps she needs a nurse so she stops pissing herself at night. That did not go over well. I know it’s a mean thing to say but I feel like it’s justified lowkey. My brother is fully on my side and had to keep himself from laughing his ass off. The rest of my family is not at all amused. From my perspective I set a boundary which was ignored, so I matched her energy.
AITA?
