AITAH for yelling at my husband (38) that I’m (28)not a stay at home mom and he needs to step up or get out?
Let me start by saying I have the most respect for stay at home moms and what they do as my mother was one and my grandma but it’s not something I can do financially or mentally.
I am a 28F and my husband is a 38M, we both work but he has a more traditional day job during the week and I work in the hospital so my hours can be a little crazy. During the week I do it all cooking, cleaning, child care, school drop off and workout after the kids go down. But then on the days I work 12-15 hours I’m still expected to keep up with the house and kids and it’s a 50/50 shot if he makes dinner when I work. Plus the bills are 70/30 as I make more money. If we go out to dinner I pay, if we want to go on vacation I pay, if we want to go out on the town I pay, if we do anything extra outside our standard bills I pay. We have separate accounts because he will spend without thinking if he sees any money in the bank. He acts like it’s the craziest thing in the world expecting him to at least take the garbage out after work or even helping clean up after dinner.
So between having to be the person to do it all at home, high stress job and I hold most of the financial responsibility I lost my mind on him. Lots of screaming and yelling on my end, not my proudest moment. So AITAH?
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