AITAH for saying i won’t move in with my bf if his mom just keeps showing up?
okay so me [23F] and my bf [26M] have been together for like 2 years and we’re alking about moving in. i really do like him and i can see us living together for sure
but his mom is like…a lot
she’s a nice lady and everything, but she just shows up at his appartment whenever. like no text, no call, she just uses her key and walk in. sometimes with food, sometimes just to say hi
i don’t even know why she has the keys to the appartment and if i ask my bf he just switches subjects. i told my bf before it lowkey makes me uncomfortable but he was like “thats just how she is, its not worth making her mad”
so last week we were literlly in the middle of an argument and she just…..walked in. it was SO awkward, she acted like nothing was happening and started talking about her garden. i wanted to disappear. later i told him i don’t wanna move in there if she’s gonna keep doing that. i said she can’t just have a key and come over unannounced. he got all quiet and said i was making him choose between me and his mom.
i was like no?? i just want privacy?? he says i’m overreacting and “all couples go through this” and then his mom CRIED when he brought it up.
now i feel like the worst person ever. really.
AITAH?
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